What You Need To Grow

Tami Goulet: The Second Half of Leaving: Finding Yourself After Starting Over

Episode Summary

What happens when you've finally walked away from something that no longer serves you, but realize you're still living by the same rules? In this episode, Jennie Bellinger welcomes Tami Goulet, coach, speaker, author, psychic, and founder of Speak Your Soul Magics, for a conversation about what she calls the second half of leaving—the often-overlooked journey of rediscovering yourself after leaving a relationship, career, identity, or old way of living. Drawing from her own experiences leaving a marriage, transitioning out of a 25-plus-year corporate career, and embracing her intuitive abilities, Tami explains why making a major life change doesn't automatically release the habits, roles, and expectations we've spent years carrying. Together, Jennie and Tami explore how to recognize when you're operating on autopilot, reconnect with your own wants and needs, trust your intuition, and separate your identity from your thoughts and emotions. Tami also shares her personal experiences with psychic abilities and how she combines intuitive guidance with practical coaching to help women navigate change. It's a conversation about releasing who you thought you had to be and giving yourself permission to become who you truly are.

Episode Notes

Episode Summary

What happens when you've finally walked away from something that no longer serves you, but realize you're still living by the same rules?

In this episode, Jennie Bellinger welcomes Tami Goulet, coach, speaker, author, psychic, and founder of Speak Your Soul Magics, for a conversation about what she calls the second half of leaving—the often-overlooked journey of rediscovering yourself after leaving a relationship, career, identity, or old way of living.

Drawing from her own experiences leaving a marriage, transitioning out of a 25-plus-year corporate career, and embracing her intuitive abilities, Tami explains why making a major life change doesn't automatically release the habits, roles, and expectations we've spent years carrying.

Together, Jennie and Tami explore how to recognize when you're operating on autopilot, reconnect with your own wants and needs, trust your intuition, and separate your identity from your thoughts and emotions. Tami also shares her personal experiences with psychic abilities and how she combines intuitive guidance with practical coaching to help women navigate change.

It's a conversation about releasing who you thought you had to be and giving yourself permission to become who you truly are.
 

Three Topics Discussed

 

Three Key Takeaways from Tami Goulet

  1. Leaving doesn't automatically mean you've let go. Even after a major life change, you may still be following habits, expectations, and rules that belonged to your previous circumstances. Recognizing those patterns gives you the opportunity to choose differently.
  2. You get to decide what stays and what goes. Personal growth doesn't require rejecting everything connected to your past. You can keep the things you genuinely enjoy, release what no longer fits, and consciously make those choices your own.
  3. Your thoughts and feelings don't have to define you. Instead of identifying yourself as an emotion or a passing thought, Tami encourages creating space between what you experience and who you are. That distinction can help you respond more intentionally.

 

“We are not our thoughts, and we are not our feelings. We have thoughts, and we have feelings. It's up to us to choose what we do with them.” — Tami Goulet

 

Connect with Tami Goulet

Coach | Speaker | Author | Psychic | Founder of Speak Your Soul Magics

Tami Goulet helps women navigate the second half of leaving—the process of rediscovering themselves after leaving relationships, careers, old identities, and limiting beliefs behind.

After more than 25 years in the corporate world, Tami embraced her work as a coach and psychic, combining her analytical background with intuitive guidance to help women reconnect with their own desires, establish boundaries, and move forward with greater confidence.

She is the founder of Speak Your Soul Magics, a shop in Ottawa, Canada, and the author of Whole All Along: Real Talk, Big Heart, and the Occasional Message From the Other Side.

 

Tami is offering What You Need to Grow listeners her Second Half Field Guide, a short, approximately 12-page resource designed to help you recognize the habits, expectations, and thought patterns that may still be influencing your life after a major change.

https://speakyoursoulmagicks.com/second-half-field-guide?am_id=jenniebba